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How to lose a guy...

He's really nice, my boyfriend. But I'm finding the more time I spend with him, the more annoyed with him I get. A relationship is about more than holding hands sometimes and kissing and me walking him to his dad's car. It's about talking and about actually going out for more than one outing in the past MONTH and giving up after well, yeah I work on tuesday and friday, and I have a thing on wednesday that should only go till about six...(Isn't asked to do something after her thing)...(Or on the weekend)...(Or next monday or wednesday or thursday... this thursday either come to that)

But he really hasn't done anything wrong. How do I break up with him???? Seriously. he's a good guy, and a good friend, and funny when he tries a little, but the bulk of our relationship, we just hang out as if we're just friends. Except for all of the "I miss you" texts I get after visiting with one of my other friends for five fucking minutes...Like... srsly... fuck.

How do I break up wiith a guy who has done nothing wrong, guys???


And I know I asked something the other day. Suffice to say this is much more important than pubic hair.

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azalea_j
Sep. 9th, 2008 11:59 pm (UTC)
Aww... Well... My advice? Pick a day that's not terribly important to him [like his birthday or christmas] and tell him that you just don't like him the way you thought you did. Or it's just not working out between you. Or, y'know what, I just need some space. Just do it. The longer you wait, the worse it'll get trying to figure out how best to do it.
hdluff4eva
Sep. 10th, 2008 04:37 am (UTC)
Durrr.... I know. But it's bryn... He's so fricking sensitive. I don't want to crush him. And he hangs out in all the same places that I do too...
azalea_j
Sep. 10th, 2008 06:07 pm (UTC)
Well... I guess use your intincts, and when the moment arives when it's time... just don't hesitate. Or... Maybe you're not quite ready to call it quits just yet- maybe talk to him. Discuss the problems [I realize that is also part of the problem] Maybe indicate to him that if he doens't talk to you just a little it will be quits- and see what he does?
-I'm honestly not the greatest person to be taking advice from on this subject though...
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